Every woman’s worst nightmare is that she will reject the man of her dreams, and he will react badly to this rejection. While some men react to rejection by being angry or frustrated, some men exhibit scary behaviors after being rejected by a woman they wanted to date. It’s important for women to know what types of scary reactions men may show after she rejects him, so she can be prepared to react appropriately if this situation ever happens.
1) He begs
He often goes back to his old tricks and begs, pleads, and bargains with you. He’ll say anything to make it up to you. He might also try to guilt trip you by telling you how he’s been going through the same thing himself or has been just as hurt by another woman. This is probably one of the most dangerous reactions because he can be very manipulative and convincing. You have to be careful not to fall for it though because he’ll continue manipulating you until your guard is down again, if not worse.
He might call or text excessively in an attempt to get in touch with you.
2) He cries
One of the scariest reactions is when a man cries. Women are not often prepared for this, and it can make them feel guilty. Crying is not good, but it’s better than being angry. It can be hard to get back on track after an emotional breakdown like this, but it’s important to try your best to comfort him and help him feel loved. He needs you more than ever right now. If he doesn’t feel confident enough to talk about what just happened, then try asking him if he wants to go for a walk or maybe go out somewhere quiet. There will probably be some things that you want to say to him too; tell him how sorry you are or just listen while he talks. It might seem impossible at first but with time, everything will start feeling normal again.
3) He gets angry
The scariest thing about being rejected by women is that they are the ones with all the power. They can pick who they want to be with, and it’s hard to argue with them because they have the higher ground. It doesn’t matter if you’re right or wrong, if you don’t agree with their decision there is no point in trying to reason with them. I’m not sure how this guy deals with rejection but I do know that he does it by getting angry.
4) He tries to make her feel guilty
After the initial shock of being rejected subsides, the man will often try to make her feel guilty. He will use phrases like I thought you really liked me and What’s wrong with me? This is often an attempt at emotional manipulation, as opposed to a sincere inquiry into what he can do better. The woman should not cave in to this type of manipulation because it will only lead to more trouble down the road. Instead she should kindly explain that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship right now.
5) He withdraws
After the woman has rejected him, the man withdraws from society and becomes antisocial. He may even refuse to go to work or stop talking to his friends. The man can also become fearful of any possible future rejections, which can lead to paranoid thinking about what will happen if he gets rejected again. When the man withdraws from society, it’s easy for him to become consumed with thoughts about the woman who rejected him and how she could have been an exception rather than just another person who didn’t want anything to do with him.
6) He disappears
This is one of the more common reactions, but it is also one of the most dangerous. If you are lucky, he will disappear and leave you alone. But if not, he may stalk or harass you in an attempt to win back your affection. And this is not just stalking on social media: it can be following you around town, showing up at places where he knows you will be, or even threatening violence against you. If any of these actions seem like something your ex might do to get revenge for being rejected by you, then please consider contacting local law enforcement authorities as soon as possible so that they can provide protection for your safety and the safety of your friends and family members.
7) He tries to guilt trip her
One of the scariest things to deal with is when someone tries to guilt you into doing something. It’s never an easy feeling, and it can be tough to get out of that conversation.
You know I was just joking, he says, after you’ve walked away from him in anger or disgust. I didn’t mean anything by it. What do you think I am? he snaps, after you refuse his advances. Some kind of pervert? You’re so slutty.
I’m not doing this because I want to, he insists, after you’ve made it clear that you’re not interested in him romantically anymore. It’s for your own good.
8) He becomes violent
One of the scariest reactions is when the man becomes violent and aggressive. This can include things like pushing, shoving, physical violence, sexual assault and rape. There are many stories of women being attacked by men who became angry after they were rejected. It is important to remember that he did not become violent because of you; he just got angry because you said no. The best thing you can do for yourself in this situation is to get away from him as quickly as possible and call for help if necessary.
